:. Baby Mao Mee :.

Hope against Federer

2010-01-29T12:23:00.001+13:00

This guy, whose mouth is so huge that he can swallow his fist, is the hope to defeat Federer in the final....Not my cup of tea but well, no other choice.....

Who should I support?

2010-01-28T10:17:00.002+13:00

With the following players respectively out of Australian Open Grand Slam, who should I be supporting next??? ***sigh***

Rafael Nadal, Frenando Verdasco, Novak Djokovic, Juan Martin Del Potro, Nikolay Davydenko

Current Obsession

2010-01-27T14:23:00.004+13:00

Been watching this anytime I can during the last week and this week.
Even though Rafa is out, he is still the most determined, strong and superb player. Good job in the game against Andy Murray last night!

What happen in 2009 that made me got lost since then

2010-01-27T14:13:00.003+13:00

A lot of things happen since I update. The list are:-

I bought a new house.
I got married.
I have to cook everyday.
I spend $20000.00 during Christmas Shopping in 2008!
I become the fellowship leader in church.
I go for my 1st and 2nd honeymoon.
I watched my first ever Heineken Open.
I joined a superb choir, SOV and joining again this year.
Lots of friends leaving us, Newton, Yohan & Jac, Ming & Wendy etc
I get to organized parties and BBQs

Wedding on 14/02/2009

Updates on my disapperance

2008-03-05T09:38:00.002+13:00

Like what Melissa said, my blog needs emergency CPR and etc. This is because I am aso busy this few weeks. Indeed, today is the only day that I came back to work and I have a few minutes to spare browsing around. Other than that, all working days are full and pack and hectic. Sometimes it is good to be hectic but sometimes I do need some time out so that I can rest.

Now, what have I been up to? It was my birthday in end January. I have birthday party at home celebrated with Jessica. It was fun and I get to go out to somewhere to have dinner with my dear on the exact date. Get some nice pressie this year and favourite is a necklace and a printed pink dress.

Then there come CNY. We have special service in church that day. At work, it was extremely busy then as have like inspection for one of the sites. Then, there are things to be specified and finalized.

Valentines Day is next. As last year, I get red roses, which are really nice. Then we have Japanese for dinner. Night was good and special with previous memories.

Lantern Festival is up last last weekend at Albert Park. We have to guard a stall. Weather was not that good on the first day but on the second day, it got worst! Our stall was blew down completely! Disadvantage of living near, I have to go down to the stall in the rain to get savage whatever we have left. It was a disaster come to live. We savage whatever we have but some flyers were melted. We have to drive back to office to get some box and equipment as we have another stall on the next day. The event was cancel by Auckland City Council on that day. We were scolded by the Auckland City Council for having too many people in our stall. Why are we the one in trouble where there are so many other people who have heaps people there too? Then some people from any religion, took over our place when our stall have fallen. They would not move their stall away and scolded us instead. What a testimony when your religion has taught you to be moderate and be nice to others. I guess this is what they say we have to surfer for the Lord in the end days.

Last weekend was the church camp. I was busy doing all the booklet, tools and arrangement stuff that I was lack of sleep. Every night is a good night sleep that week. We really have a fun camp. Thanks to Joey and Leo, it was a great game played. Sermons were really good too as we have a outsider pastor preaching so there are a lot of things that I have learn. Accommodation wise was really good as Willow Park has the place renovated and everything is squeaky clean. Played games, have a lot of sharing with brothers and sisters, especially the youths. The bondage of our home is alive and still there and will try to keep remain. Everything is really cool for camp. “Tuff Cookie” was the one making my day “bad” coz she forced me to go tramping but alas, I have my dear to protect me. Hahahahaha.

This week is empty as I need rest. Have a few inspections at work and will be having a sequel of our camp in fellowship this week. We are having a nice topic, saying “I already have a home”. Let’s pray that God works miracles in the home. Most of the youths are back so assuming feloowship will be back in full gear again. :)

Next month will be flying back to Malaysia. I will try to keep the blog alive often so that Melissa do not have to perform CPR so often.

At Work

2008-01-18T13:43:00.000+13:00

Have you ever feel like this at work? I am still ok up to now this year. Thank God :)

NZ Flag is down half post

2008-01-14T10:32:00.000+13:00

As a tribute to Sir Edmund Hillary.

If you do not know:-
His portrait is on NZ $5 note.
He is the first man to reach the top of Mt Everest.
He is the founder of Scott Base in Antartica.
He leave his phome phone number in the NZ White Pages for anyone who dare to call.
He lives in remuera, one of the high profile suburb in Auckland.
He is a NZ icon.

The world lost one of her humble and iconic man.

As we kiwi will say, He is a Legend.

My Most Humiliated Moment in Life

2008-01-09T10:30:00.000+13:00

The year I can never forget when I was young in ITS. I was 14.

Melissa blog that person on her blog. It was her favorite teacher.

To me she is the worst, with No repsect for any soul, looking down on the weak.

But that was the past, yet it still haunts.

I sincerely pray that she had changed.

No offense to her favourite students :)

Part of LIFE.

Happy New Year 2008

2008-01-01T11:31:00.000+13:00

New Zealand is the first country in the world to celebrate the New Year. Firework last night from Sky City was spectacular. It was beautiful, colourful and amazing!!

I could hear the car honking and the people counting down in Queen Street last night. Everything was so happy and when I went to bed at 1.30, I could still hear fireworks!

Today being the first day of the New Year, everything is calm and quiet in the morning. I woke up at 6 and fine the sun shinning brightly but all is calm. May God blessings continue to shower on this land for the 2008 New Year.

Happy New Year everyone!

My Holiday...

2007-12-27T11:20:00.000+13:00

As most of you know, there is a chicken running freely in my house and poxing everyone. Unfortunately I got poxed by it!

Now I have done half of my holiday plans, BBQ, shooping, karaoke, Candlelight Service.

I have to miss the following:- strawberry, Tauranga.

I can still do the following:- Go to FREE movies, Farewell dinner with Perry.

But for everything that happens, I still thank God for his timing coz He makes all things beautiful in His time.

Christmas in Auckland

2007-12-23T20:32:00.000+13:00

Melon says that it's a great holiday in Auckland! Yes, indeed it is a good holiday! However, one of my plan cancelled as Mavis have chicken pox :(

Planned to go to Karapiro on Boxing Day for 2 days but Mavis got chicken pox yesterday so cannot go anymore. However I am happy that I do not have to go coz its a site that I have been there for a lot of time as site supervision. It is all dusty and dirty.

Gordon and Tracey have ask us to go to his home for karaoke tomorrow. It is a great thing! Then going to church to celebrate Christmas Eve night with Christmas Eve Candlelight Service. I am going to the 11pm one and someone told me that it will be a great service. They say that it is a great time, environment and service. Looking very forward to that!

I am going to Pastor Lee house for Christmas BBQ on Christmas Day then going to look at some nice decoration in Waitakere and Franklin Road.

Then will have to blog again to make my holiday nice :) Next up is going to movie coz have 2 FREE movie tickets, shopping, going to Tauranga and strawberry ...

GREAT HOLIDAY INDEED!!!

Christmas Holiday

2007-12-19T09:24:00.000+13:00

It has been quite a while since I come and update my blog. Quite busy with life, at work, in relationship, in church and also at home. Finally, the holiday that I loved the most, Christmas is just around the corner! Hurray!

Basically, there will be not much work from today onwards. Supplier are closed, marketing ends and I will be shaking my legs (like Thomas) from today till Friday. Going to a site party in half an hour though. Looking foward to my holidays!!

What am I going to do? For now, there is a BBQ, a farewell dinner for a beloved brother in Christ, a trip to Tauranga, Christmas Eve Candlelight Services, singing carols on the stpes, a trip to Karapiro and going shopping on Boxing Day. Think that's about it for now. Then gonna spend 2 days cleaning the house and the rest of the days no idea what to do. Anybody have any idea where to go and what to do who have plans, please let me know ok?

As for my mood, of course in holiday mood right now! Am looking forward to all the trips and enjoy myself while I am young and do the best for my Lord. Oh ya, reminds me I have a bulletin board to finish while I am on my holiday. Another idea is to watch movies, the tons of movies that I have but yet to watch.

I am thinking to go strawberry picking in Riverdale. Anyone wants to come with me? Still thinking what day but most probably will be in January though.

Ok, enough thinking about the holidays, time to get back to work. At least 20 minutes of work before going for the site party. Hohoho.... Christmas here I come!!!

世界上至少有10种东西是你不知道的

2007-12-19T09:16:00.000+13:00

1.虾米的心脏在头部。

2.老鼠和马不能呕吐。

3.据说猫的尿液是夜光的。

4.世界人口50%的人从来都没有接过电话。

5.人的心脏可以产生把血液喷出三十尺高的压力。

6.你永远不可能用你的舌头舔到你的手肘。

7.打喷嚏若过于强劲，会导致胸腔破裂，但是如果你想要将这个喷嚏强行忍住，却会导致你头或者是脖子中某个血管破裂，睁着眼打，说不定还会把你的眼球给一起打出来。

8.打火机是比火柴更早发明出来的。

9.据说，在你睡觉的时候，不知不觉中，你会吃入70多种虫子和10多只蜘蛛。

10. 70% 的人看完帖后会试着舔到他的手肘...哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈

愛

2007-12-18T13:19:00.000+13:00

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Thanksgiving

2007-11-30T14:00:00.000+13:00

It's last day of November. It will be Summer tomorrow.
It's so thankful of what I have learn adn experienced.
It's so great of what friends and family i have.
It's so amazing of how things have fall apart and piled up.
It's so cool that I have been in NZ for almost 4 years.
It's so amazing of how God have lead me.
It's so cool of what the Lord have done for me!!

TAGGED by Mel

2007-11-18T22:07:00.000+13:00

LIST OUT THE TOP 5 PRESENTS YOU WISH FOR
1. Money.....to shop in Msia and HK
2. Money.....to pay for my trip
3. Money.....to buy gifs back home
4. Money.....to give my parents
5. Money.....to do everything except the way to salvation

THE PERSON WHO TAGG-ED YOU IS
Mel, Melissa and "Michelle"

YOUR 5 IMPRESSIONS OF HIM/HER
1. she's home-maker
2. she's pianist
3. she's always smilling
4. she's a big sister though she is the youngest
5. she's somehow a perfectionist

MOST MEMORABLE THINGS HE/SHE HAS DONE FOR YOU
She is always there... when I am bad mood in church...

THE MOST MEMORABLE WORDS HE/SHE HAS SAID TO YOU
"You are right"... I should consider culture back the..."

IF HE/SHE BECOMES YOUR LOVER , YOU WILL
protect her to be chopped into bits and run over by a car driven by Diwen

IF HE/SHE BECOMES YOUR LOVER , THEY HAVE TO IMPROVE ON WILL BE
Less spendthrift... :p

IF HE/SHE BECOME YOUR ENEMY , YOU WILL
hmmm... That's hard.... Maybe get her whole wardrobe

IF HE/SHE BECOME YOUR ENEMY , THE REASON WILL BE
I cook better than her?? LOL

Edit: List the names of TEN ppl...
1. Joey
2. Simon
3. Jasmine

Forget the rest. Tagged everyone liao.....

Tagged by Esther.... AGAIN......

2007-11-15T10:25:00.000+13:00

LIST OUT THE TOP 5 PRESENTS YOU WISH FOR
1. NZD 100,000,000.00
2. Air ticket to tour around the world
3. Real Drum Set
4. A Nice and Decent Car
5. Brand New Wardrobe

THE PERSON WHO TAGG-ED YOU IS
Esther, the older one.

YOUR 5 IMPRESSIONS OF HIM/HER
1. she's crazy
2. she's a musician
3. she's loud
4. she's skinny
5. she can be of more gentle

MOST MEMORABLE THINGS HE/SHE HAS DONE FOR YOU
bring me a New World catalogue

THE MOST MEMORABLE WORDS HE/SHE HAS SAID TO YOU
eh, you know………(she always start talking by that)

IF HE/SHE BECOMES YOUR LOVER , YOU WILL
die instantly…

IF HE/SHE BECOMES YOUR LOVER , THEY HAVE TO IMPROVE ON WILL BE
she have to be more gentle

IF HE/SHE BECOME YOUR ENEMY , YOU WILL
burn all her bears….she have heaps

IF HE/SHE BECOME YOUR ENEMY , THE REASON WILL BE
she steal my bf which will not likely happen

PASS THIS QUIZ TO 1O PEOPLE THAT YOU WISH TO KNOW HOW THEY FEEL ABOUT YOU
1. Diwen
2. Melon
3. Victor
4. Newton
5. Spear
6. Joshua
7. Lian Ying
8. Esther
9. Melissa
10. Jessica
*******************************************************************************************************

1. WHO IS NO.7 HAVING RELATIONSHIP WITH ?
currently melon coz she is back home

2. WHO IS NO.9 HAVING RELATIONSHIP WITH ?
God……..

3. IF NO.9 and NO.10 ARE TOGETHER , WILL IT BE A GOOD THING ?
against all rules. Cousins and cousins and they are both girls

4. WHAT ABOUT NO.1 and NO.5 ?
NO!!! Diwen is mine and wait Spear and Diwen share the same birthday!!!

5. WHAT IS NO.3 STUDYING ?
Just graduate but gonna keep on taking other papers

6. WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOUS CHATT-ED WITH NO.6 ?
Yesterday, he say he is doing some passive sales

7. DOES NO.4 WORK ?
used to be at pizza hut. Now, dun think so.

8. DOES NO.8 HAVE ANY COUSIN IN HIS/HER OWN SCHOOL ?
if you consider Auckland Uni, yes. Vince, Mel and Julie

9. WILL YOU WOO NO.8 ?
ya, if I am a guy. She cooks and take care of the family well!

10. HOW ABOUT NO.5 ?
He is a nice guy but nah…..

11. DOES NO2 HAVE ANY SIBLINGS ?
Yea, me and Lian Ying

12. HOW DID YOU GET TO KNOW NO.3 AND NO.4 ?
From Tab. Newton we join at the same time and Victor through Diwen.

13. WHERE DOES NO.1 LIVE AT ?
29, Malahide Drive, Dannemora

14. HOW YOU GET TO KNOW NO.2 ?
My mother… Hahahaha…

15. IS NO.5 SEXIEST PERSON IN THE WORLD ?
hahahahaha…...nice yes, sexy… errrrrrr…..

Student Life Ball

2007-10-22T11:29:00.000+13:00

I went to the ball after Youth Fellowship. They pay $20 but I do not have to pay. Hahahaha.... Thanks to Yohan and Jackie.

We did not dance as it was all hot and fast dancing. Apparently there are all singles who join the ball so they can't play slow numbers. I was on my heels so dun bother.

This is Mr Handsome from the ball. His usual style is in my blog somewhere, see if you can recognize him.

There we are 4 of us who are at the ball.

After all, it was a nice ball but not a 'cinderella story' for me :)

Waiwera Trip

2007-10-22T11:21:00.000+13:00

It was last Sunday that we have a trip over to Waiwera.

Initially, we were told its an easy and short 1.5 hours tramp.

We were fooled. It was really hard and it took us 2.5hours!!!

No more trusting Mr Thomas again!!

Anyway, the photos are as below:-

Just the begining, noone was aware of what is in front.

We are half way up on the top of the hill, not knowing the hard part is going down hill!!!

It was so hard going down hill that we did not take any photo but this is the aftermath.....

the maori king was happy after going down hill and we still have 30 mins walk from here...

It is a tiring tramp!!!

More photos from Camp.

2007-10-08T11:45:00.000+13:00

As promised, the nice ones. My favorites :D:D

Robocop in the making. Muahahahaha..

Clapping Monkey :D:D

Same rock but how different and cool it can be when the poser is another guy :p

very nice and cool group photo!

Another nice photo :)

That sort of wraps up for camp. Next event, we are going to Waiwera this coming Sunday after combined service! Stay tuned....

Skiing

2007-10-05T09:13:00.000+13:00

Skiing was fun! Not much skiing but seeing others freezing was fun. Muahahahaha. We went up the mountains anyway. Thank God I am still alive :D A picture says a thousand words, note: Mt Ruapehu and Huka Falls.

At the meantime, some nice self-potraits.

More will be post for camp when I get them from Thomas and Esther.

Endless Jobs....

2007-09-27T16:06:00.000+12:00

It happened again.

I am going for my short 4 days holiday off Auckland. However, I am drowned with work. I received a couple of scope of work today after lunch. Mind you, they are big jobs, that last me at least a month.

Guess what, when I tell them I am on leave on Monday, they give me the donkey face look. They booked me on to site on Monday. I pushed it to Tuesday. Going off to Waiwera.

I am fully loaded with non-stop work until next Friday both in office, or on site. Anyone care to join me?

Why does this tend to happen everytime I am going on holiday?

Sigh.....

My Blog

2007-09-27T09:23:00.000+12:00

I close my blog yesterday. Only allow a small bunch of people to view it. Some people just do not know how to respect others blog. I open it again today, after some consideration.

My blog exist just as I want to share my life with my friends. If you read my blog please respect it with full privacy. If you want to share something on my cbox or comment, please put on your real name. No "A guy" or using my name "Nicole" business here.

If you wana say something, make sure everyone knows you. If you are ashame of what you say, why say it? You know who you are and you bring miserable to my life. I have been warning you, but you did not get what I say so i have to be harsh here.

My personal life, secrets should be reviewed by myself and nobody else on my cbox or in real life. Please respect my life.

If you cannot apply all these rules when you are visiting my blog, please do not revisit again. I will close it down if something happens again.

I mind my own business and you mind your own. Thank you.

My Ski Trip!!!

2007-09-26T10:20:00.000+12:00

I am so looking foward to camp this weekend! Then we are heading to the ski field on Sunday and Monday!

Then, guess what.... O.o

>.<"

-___-""

Mt Ruapehu erupted last night at 8.20pm. The Whakapapa and Turoa skifields, SH 47 and SH 48 are closed.

So loooong my ski trip. What should I do? Sigh.....

Long Leg Mosquito is BACK!!!

2007-09-24T16:20:00.000+12:00

My dear cousin is back.... o.O more noise and less peace in the house...

She said my dad teach her something and I was laughing after I listen to it. So cute!! Why my dad did not teach me something as cute as this when I was younger? >.<"

This is what she said,

一只青蛙一张嘴，
两只眼睛四条腿，
扑嗵一声跳下水；

两只青蛙两张嘴，
四只眼睛八条腿，
扑嗵扑嗵跳下水。

Attached a photo of her with her frog (well, actually julie's frog) :p

Something about Men

2007-09-21T10:06:00.000+12:00

A view I got after I see some guys.....I need views from both ladies and gentlemen on this.... be free to add your comment...

I have a boyfriend. He is always on the move to fool me and make me scream around. He will do something to annoy me and make me so angry that I will shout at him. Then when he realized that he have did something that make me really pissed off, it was always too late. I am already really pissed off by then. Usually the thing that make me really pissed off will be of that girl is really pretty and what shall i do without him. For men out there who do not realized, those are the things that create the insecurity for girls!! By then, my boyfriend will have to use double the time to make me ok and not angry at him. No matter what, I think we ladies deserve the pampered after we got our hormons up and down after being so mad. My boyfriend will always say it is fun and he is playing with me and I look cute that way to make a fool out of me O.o

Last night, my little sister and I were watching this 2002 Taiwan series. It is quite a good movie other than it really pull on my nerves when the guy not just did the same thing as my boyfriend did but just worse. The girl, lets call her XQ, like this guy called ZS. It was a one-sided love at first with no response from the ZS guy. This ZS guy was one of the favourite guy at school where everyone will go crazy for him. He was a upper class guy but she was a lower class girl. What we always categorized as different status. A bit like F4 during those years. But slowly, this guy fall for this girl and he fancy the way this girl will do anything for the guy. Then this guy sort of like possessed this girl and somehow cannot live without her. ZS have the right to get angry when XQ have another guy friend, while when ZS have bees of girls around him, ZS will use that as a "weapon, like what my bf does, to make XQ hurt.

I told my bf then story and eventually, the guy is not bullying the girl on purpose but just joking and fooling around with the girl as finding the girl cute he is doing that.

Sigh.... Man, dun you know you guys make us insecurity and sad when you are having fun? Do you know how much fear we are in? Do you know how sad we are over it? Please remember, we girls have more emotion than rational....

~`I am feeling emotional`~

2007-09-18T15:19:00.001+12:00

I am feeling so emotional today. See my two previous blog. I do not know why but just feeling emotional.
I almost cry to a story and ya.....
I call up my bf just to say I miss him....
I feel emotional wanting someone to hug me....
I was thinking of Mavis....
Blame it on the taiwan series I am watching now.... :p

活着让你好好爱我

2007-09-18T11:03:00.001+12:00

这是一个真实的故事……一天一个男孩送给他的女朋友一台汉显传呼机，温柔的对她说：“我以后再也不怕找不到你了。”女孩调皮的说：“如果我离开这座城市，你就呼不到我了。”男孩得意的摇摇头：“我可是办了漫游的，无论你走到哪里我都会呼到你”
女孩问他的传呼号是什么，男孩说：“这是爱情专线，号码不公开。”从此女孩每天都把它带在身边，一刻也不离开。在一个阳光明媚，让人有一份好的不得了的心情的周末，女孩只留了一张字条给父母，坐上汽车奔向邻近的县城游玩，但是没有人知道女孩正走向一场灾难。
女孩县城玩了一天，拖着沉沉的脚步找到一间带淋浴的小旅馆。一走进房间，女孩迫不及待的走进浴室，想洗去一身的疲惫。当女孩正准备脱衣服的时候，脚下一阵晃动，她急忙扶住一根铁管，心想错觉吗？但是当第二次晃动，女孩知道这不是错觉。
跟随第二次的晃动中还带有急促和沉闷的断裂声，女孩的全身开始颤栗，她知道可怕的地震来了，随着第三第四次的更加猛烈的震动，无边的黑暗和无边的恐惧把女孩紧紧的包裹起来女孩象一只受伤的野兽，拼命的放声号叫，拼命的拍打、撕咬浴室的门板。然而一切都是徒劳，女孩无力的蜷缩在阴凉冷漠的地上。
不知过了多久，忽然腰间一阵颤动，是呼机。女孩匆匆的摘下它，在黑暗中摸索着按到了键子，即看到了绿色的光芒：“林先生请你七点钟到老地方见面。”读着这句话，女孩的泪水又一次涌出来，滑过嘴角。咸咸涩涩的。想着电话那边的他，女孩又再一次尝试着走出困境，但是是再一次的徒劳与绝望。女孩跌坐在地上，把自己缩成一团，眼睛盯着呼机的屏幕。
不知过了多久，女孩睡着了，又不知过了多久，呼机再一次在女孩的手中颤动了：“林先生问你在哪里，请速回电话。”女孩再一次的流下眼泪，我想告诉你我在哪里，但是我办不到啊。渐渐的女孩平静了下来，面对无法挽回的死亡，女孩不知道自己还能做什么。
呼机第三次震动：“去了你家，看到你留下的字条，请火速回家。”女孩的心又开始躁动。呼机第四震动：“我听到广播，知道你那里发生了什么，相信你此时正拿着呼机读我的话，我们很快会见面的。”似乎有一缕曙光在女孩的眼前闪过。女孩期待呼机第五次的震动，此时的呼机成了他生命唯一的寄托。
时间一分一秒的过去了，呼机象一个疲惫的孩子一样睡着了。终于第五次的震动来了：“我去找你，车不通，想尽各种办法，还是无功而返。我相信你不会出问题的，你是一个聪明又好运的女孩。我等待你的归来！”第六次，第七次。。。。女孩在男孩一次又一次的传呼中度过了一个又一个恐惧与绝望的时刻，不知不觉已经两天两夜了。
死亡的阴影越来越紧的箍住女孩的全身，仿佛看到自己体内的鲜血和肌肉正被一条黑色的巨蛇一口一口贪婪的吞噬。女孩觉得自己快不行了，连哭泣的力量都没有了，她的思想开始混乱，感觉自己正在往下沉，就在沉到底的时候，呼机第三十八次，也许第四十八次，五十八次震动起来，那震动象磁铁一样，牢牢的吸住了女孩体内残余的所有能量：“我们什么时候结婚？举行哪些仪式？从现在开始我们分别设想一下，日后评出最佳方案。”
结婚，婚礼，实在是太诱人了，女孩陷入了遐想之中。海底婚礼，象鱼一样自由自在穿梭在海洋世界；跳伞婚礼，与白云并肩飞在空中……女孩再一次振作起来，是啊，人生那么美好，又有多少美好的人生的等着我呢。第六十次，第六十一次。
……男孩一次又一次的向女孩传呼，一次又一次的给女孩注入生命的活力；一次又一次的把女孩的生存信念从崩溃的边缘拉回来……
度过了漫长的四个昼夜，女孩获救了。当他看到男孩惨白的脸，火一样的眼睛，一下子明白了世间最为珍贵的就是爱。女孩在担架上轻轻的拉着男孩的手，柔柔的说：“我是你今生的新娘”。
活着让你好好爱我！！！

一個感人的愛情故事

2007-09-18T10:38:00.000+12:00

有一個年輕人喜歡上了在便利商店打工的女孩,他每天都會到女孩工作的店裡面買一包香煙, 漸漸的兩人開始互相熟悉,當女孩工作感到無聊乏味的時候, 年輕人就會出現,他會陪女孩說說話 ,或是逗女孩開心.

女孩也知道年輕人似乎喜歡上自己了,可是自己已經有很要好的男友. 有商店夾公仔機...女孩很喜歡裡面的娃娃, 年輕人知道以後,當天他終於對她表白,希望女孩能接受他, 不知如何是好的女孩,只能殘忍的告訴年輕人,她和他是不可能的, 因為她已經有深愛的男友了,年輕人聽了之後默然的點點頭, 他不死心的問女孩,自己真的沒有機會了嗎?

善良的女孩不忍心.... 於是她手指著娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃說, 除非你夾滿100個娃娃,而且一天只能夾一個. 原來女孩希望用時間來沖淡年輕人對自己的感情 , 她心想,一天夾1個娃娃, 最快也要三個多月之後才有100個, 而且年輕人應該不會真的有耐心夾滿100個娃娃吧!

這三個月的時間,她會盡量與男孩保持距離, 年輕人還是每天到商店來,可是女孩開始變得冷淡, 他總是試著聊一些女孩有興趣的話題,不過女孩依然愛理不理. 因為她知道唯有這樣做,才不會讓年輕人越陷越深. 年輕人或許是感覺到女孩的用意, 於是他每天夾娃娃,有時運氣好夾一兩次就中了, 有時運氣差,零用錢花光了也夾不到,只好跟朋友借錢繼續夾,一直到夾中為止. 無論花多少錢花多少時間,他每天一定會夾一個娃娃, 只是他無法與女孩分享夾到娃娃的喜悅, 因為他知道女孩有意要避開他, 為了怕引響到女孩的情緒,他只能在櫥窗外頭微笑的對女孩點點頭.

好幾次,看到年輕人因為夾到娃娃興高采烈的樣子, 女孩都想要衝出去對他說, 我是騙你的,你不要再夾了,就算你真的夾到100個娃娃,我跟你也是不可能的! 但是一想到年輕人希望破滅的樣子,女孩就於心不忍,她只能不斷猶豫.

就這樣1 天,2天,3天..,年輕人的娃娃數量不斷的累積,而女孩刻意與年輕人保持距離的結果, 則是讓自己在工作的時後更顯孤單.不知道是哪一天,女孩子因為在外地工作的男友無法回來陪她過18歲的生日, 與男友吵了一架,而那天年輕人仍一如往常的來到便利商店, 不同的是那天年輕人竟走進了店裡,他對女孩說, 可不可以破例讓他在今天夾兩個娃娃回去,可是因為和男友吵架而心情不佳的女孩,很生氣的當場拒絕了他. 就這樣,年輕人走到娃娃機旁,默默的夾了一個娃娃回去, 在年輕人離開的時後,他對櫥窗裡的女孩看了一眼.

隔天以後,年輕人再也沒來夾娃娃了.剛開始女孩雖然覺得奇怪,但是仍然慶幸自己終於放下了心中的大石頭. 可是漸漸的,她突然覺得不習慣, 因為那個每天都會為了她來夾娃娃的熟悉背影, 好像空氣一樣就消失不見了,這時女孩才發現到, 原來她心中的失落感遠遠超過年輕人所帶給她的負擔. 只是一切都...女孩開始想念以前年輕人來店裡陪她聊天的點點滴滴. 哪怕他只是站在櫥窗外頭沉默不語的夾娃娃, 似乎都會帶給她莫名的安全感. 所以女孩每天上班時,總是不斷的抬頭張望, 那個熟悉的身影來了嗎? 可惜的是,年輕人始終沒出現, 只剩下那台沒人使用的娃娃機.

有一天,女孩下班後,在店門口遇到了以前常和年輕人一起來的朋友, 她焦急的問他年輕人的下落,可是年輕人的朋友則是一臉黯然, 他帶女孩來到年輕人的家, 當他開啟年輕人的房間的門時,映入女孩眼簾的是一群娃娃機裡面的絨毛娃娃,以及躺在床上動也不動的年輕人.

原來年輕人的脊椎有病,必須要開刀才能保住生命, 可是開刀有一半的機率會失敗而導致全身癱瘓, 年輕人在開刀的前一天晚上,也就是女孩和男友大吵一架的那天, 希望女孩給他機會夾2個娃娃,因為他已經累積有98個了, 然而卻遭到女孩的回絕,隔天之後年輕人手術不幸失敗變成植物人, 年輕人的母親拿了一封信給女孩,

那是年輕人在手術之前寫好的: 其實我早就知道,就算夾到了100個娃娃, 妳也不可能會喜歡我,我之所以這麼做並不是故意要造成妳的困擾, 而是希望在我有限的時間裡, 證明我曾經很用心的去愛一個人, 這樣就足夠了. 如果妳看到了這封信, 那表示我再也無法為你夾娃娃了,對不起,或許我的努力還不夠吧, 沒能夾到100個娃娃親手送給你............

女孩看著床邊的99個絨毛娃娃,那是99顆無法承受的真心, 眼眶裡的淚水早已決堤而出... 隔天女孩來到年輕人的家, 她將第100個絨毛娃娃放到年輕人的手中, 這時已經變成植物人的他, 眼睛流下了淚水......

Hari Kebangsaan Negaraku :)

2007-08-31T13:58:00.000+12:00

Bulan lapan lima puluh tujuh
Merdeka ! Merdeka !
Tetaplah merdeka
Ia pasti menjadi sejarah

Tanggal 31
Bulan lapan lima puluh tujuh
Hari yang mulia
Hari bahagia
Sambut dengan jiwa yang merdeka

Mari kita seluruh warga negara
Ramai-ramai menyambut hari merdeka
Merdeka !
Tiga satu bulan lapan lima puluh tujuh
Hari mulia negaraku merdeka

God's Amazing Creation

2007-08-29T15:02:00.000+12:00

There was a lunar eclipse last night. I will not talk more about it as I believe goooooooogle will have heaps of news on it.

So many people around me were so amazed at what they were looking at. They looked so amazed, why arent they amazed that Jesus die on the cross and give us salvation without any cost at all? Isn't that more precious? God's promise that happen on us is more precious than what is happening on the moon.... God created everything around us and created man above them all....

People nowadays do not know what to appreciate :)

This is so cool!!

2007-07-24T09:36:00.000+12:00

Enjoy!

2007-07-24T09:03:00.000+12:00

WARNING!! All Captions here are make up by DD. I did not write any of them and I do not bother to change them. Some captions and picture maybe disturbance to some people. If you expereince heart failure, laughing symptoms or any sickness, please refrain from viewing the photos and captions. Baby Mao Mee will not be responsible for any after effect from viewing the photo. Thanks.

http://picasaweb.google.com/babymaomee/AustraliaTrip2007

Nick Names

2007-07-18T22:01:00.000+12:00

Ok, this is the weirdest post and people will kill me for it but it will be very interesting and funny, so I will still blog it!!!

p/s: - xxx is to protect everyone and privacy matters.

I have nicknames - Nic, Bxx Wxxxx Sxxx, Xiao Jxx Hxx, Gxxxx Dxx

Everyone i know have nicknames:-
Diwen - Ah Di, Diwen Jie Mei
Julie - Small Melon, Gxxxxxxx, Tx Dx Yx
Mavis - Deng Ka Bang, Ma Bi Zen, Heater
Scot - Scot Tao, KOKO(as in spell it out), Scooter
Jessica - Ah Star, Pxxxxx Mxxxx and recently Queen Kong, Jelister
Alicia - Xxx, Jelister
Esther Tay- Ah Txx, Jelister
Joshua - DD, Yoshi, Yellow Dog, Doggie, nossnun, gooker defcon delta
Lucien - Pink Dog, Gay
Newton - Kam Shao
Thomas - Ah Dang
Esther Song - hamster, Snake, Rat, Mouse, Mice, Tinggi, Tikki, Easter Egg, Ester(chemical), Lesbian (obviously Gay call her that as revenge)
Melissa - Ah Mer, Honey Bee
Joshua Tay (from Aussie) - Tweety
Audrey - Itik
Magdeline - Bear

Ok, that's all I can think of now. Anyone who know more, send a comment or put them on my chat box and I will update the list. For fun!!!

Australia

2007-07-18T21:50:00.001+12:00

As promised, picture, after 2 weeks. I am so busy at work!! So sorry folks. Yoshi™ say he will help me upload some photos, so....... BLAME HIM IF YOU ARE STILL EAGER TO SEE MY PHOTO!!

Tagged by Yoshi™

2007-07-18T21:47:00.000+12:00

Q1:如果看到自己最爱的人熟睡在你面前你会做什么
盯着看，然后在他的额头轻轻给他一个吻。
Q2:写首自己最最喜爱的歌？
专属天使
Q3:当你最不知道穿什么颜色的时候，你会选择什么颜色？
黑色和白色
Q4:2006年你最后悔的一件事是什么？
想不起
Q5:你曾经有过最被感动的事是什么？
他爱我多过我爱他
Q6:比较喜欢爸爸还是妈妈？
一样
Q8:最后一次发自内心的笑是什么时候?
今天
Q9:如果给你一个机会去世界上任何一个地方旅行，你会去哪儿？
巴黎
Q10:如果时间能倒流你希望回到哪天?
去年的圣诞节
Q11:最想实现的三个愿望是什么?
到欧洲度蜜月，身体健康，成为神合乎的器皿
12:我在你眼里什么样？
好朋友
Q13 如果让你拥有一种超能力，你愿意拥有什么呢？
随时可以隐身
Q14:最喜欢哪部电影？
目前是OCEANS 13
Q15:与喜欢的人见面,想要穿成什么样子
轻便
Q16:最喜欢的食物？
火锅水果
Q17:如何向喜欢的人表白？
关心他，对他特别照顾
Q18:如果你爱的人不爱你怎麽辦?
慢慢放弃
Q19:你会选择having *** before marriage吗？
不
Q20:世界末日,你会幸存，并且你可以救一个人，你会救谁？
我没有能力救人，耶稣有
Q21:你在乎别人看你的眼光吗？会为了众人的反对放弃自己想要的东西或吗？
在乎，可是不会放弃
Q22:想要拥有一个怎样的圣诞？
已经实现了，而且在梦乡以外
Q23:如果我们不认识...你还想和我做朋友么？
当然
Q24:对我的第一印象和现在的感觉？
很nerd.
Q25:你的他（她）迟到多久你会等?
多久都等
Q26:怎么才算真正爱一个人？
爱人如己
Q27:在什么时候会想到我？
看见狗的时候
Q28:2007年最想干什么？
好好工作
Q29:做人是为了什么啊？
为神，为人，为己
Q30:如果有天你死了,希望是什么死法?
睡觉时死
Q31:朋友到底是怎样的?
无论什么情况都不放弃对方
Q32:如何拒绝追求你的人？
说清楚，如果不走，狠狠教训一顿
Q33:最想做什么动物？
猫
Q34:你和你现在的女(男)朋友在路上碰到你以前的女(男)朋友,你会怎么办？
装看不见。可是这不太可能发生
Q35:觉得一直和一个人呆在一起会有一天厌倦吗？（朋友或恋人）
朋友可能会，恋人会也要学习不会
Q36:郁闷的时候怎么办？
睡觉
Q37:最适合你发呆的地方？
房间的无敌海景
Q38:做过最开心的梦是？
和喜欢的人在一起
Q39:第一本看的言情小说？
没有
Q40:如果有一天，傷害了自己心愛的人，會怎麽辦?
道歉，希望可以加倍爱他来补救
Q41:如果有一天，我們不再是朋友了你還會記得我吗？
不会，天堂还要见，所以尽量不会不和你做朋友
Q42:愛妳的人和妳愛的人會選哪個？
已经遇到一个人，爱我，我也爱他。
Q43:你喜欢和什么样的人聊天
有共同话题的人
Q44:最热衷的事
新鲜事
Q45:你会和前男(女)友旧情复燃吗?
不会
Q46:最喜欢哪个季节？
秋天
Q47:觉得一个人要怎样才算活得坚强？
仰望神，就最坚强；靠着那加给我力量的，凡事都能做
Q48:最害怕什么？
蜘蛛，机械
Q49:我的哪个缺点你最讨厌?
太痴情，喜欢留在COMFORT ZONE
Q50:如果你和你的BF(GF)现在分隔两地,你觉得自己有毅力等下去吗
不知道
Q51:你最憧憬的浪漫场景是什么？
黄昏或日出
Q52:打算多大结婚生子呢?
27吧。。。
Q53:自由和快乐.请选择一个
快乐，在主里我已得到了自由
Q54:你是追求快乐呢还是等待快乐？
追求
Q54:在下雨天喜欢穿白色的人是一个什么样的人？
忧伤却要显出快乐的人
Q55:生活中会遇到很多挫折，说说看自己怎样渡过难关？
祷告
Q58:喜欢什么时候的大海？早晨，中午，下午，傍晚，深夜？
早晨
Q59:在你心目中，遇到过最善良的人是谁？
没有特别的人
Q60:如果你信任的人做了对不起你的事你会怎样?
不再信任了，或要等上一段时间才信任
Q61:你和你爱的他或者她,你希望谁先死?
我。。很自私，我知道
Q62:觉得我应该找一个什么样的女人(男人)结婚！看清楚是结婚，不是恋爱！！！
上帝为我选的，合乎身的意思的
Q63:过年的时候应该到男方家过年还是去女方家?
男方先，然后女方
Q64:你喜欢的男生让你叫他哥(你喜欢的女生认你做哥) 你会同意吗?
不会，很暧昧
Q65:做完题后，你累不？
说不累是骗人
Q66:你觉的一个女人作为第3者是否很可耻？
会
Q67:怎样会被感动？
痴情
Q68:一份礼物已经送你了却说在几月几号（很久）前不能开启，你的好奇心会驱使你怎么做？
忍
Q69:如果都能活的很好，想要特别童真还是特别成熟？？
成熟
Q70:现在，你对自己曾经真心付出最真的一段爱情持一个什么样的想法？
真心付出，爱人如己
Q71:有刻意地伤害过别人吗？不要说没有，好好想想。
有
Q72:觉得自己幸福吗？
很幸福
Q73:写出你现阶段最喜欢的5个男人(女人)的名字
爸爸，棣文。。。
Q74:你认为活着是为了什么?为什么活着?
为神
Q75:你不开心的时候会告诉别人你的难过吗?
只会告诉某些人，男朋友
Q76：你爱的人不能给你明确的答案，你会怎么做？
等待
Q77：为啥女生老是喜欢问“你爱不爱我？”呢？
没有安全感
Q78:在你的生命中不可缺少的五要素是什么？
上帝家人健康智慧爱
Q79：大学的生活怎样过才是最让自己满足和开心的？现阶段的你快乐么？
快乐，可是我工作了，不大学开心。
Q80：上大学的意义是什么？
爸爸说上，我就上。

Tagged by Esther

2007-07-09T09:48:00.000+12:00

What's within arm's reach on your desk, without leaning forward too much?
Note: I am in the offce so this is what I have in the office desk :)

My green cup
Calculator
My computer
Namecard stack
Pen
Pencils
Rulers
Diary - For work purposes
Pot of Flower
Cellotape
Files
Telephone
Mobile
Color Charts
NZ Flag
Flyers
Booklets
Handbag
Rubbish Bin
Blank DVDs
Note Pad
Eraser
Ink Stamp
Knife

Glad to be home

2007-07-09T09:46:00.000+12:00

hey people, I am back. Will post up more updates on Aussie trip soon :) At the mean time, still on holiday mode :p

Especially for Dear

2007-06-25T13:17:00.000+12:00

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2007-06-25T13:08:00.001+12:00

Today is the 6 month anniversary. It is through thick and thins, hardship, promises from God, prayer and commitment that pull through it together. It was hard, very hard. But through a lot of prayers and promises from God that confirm this. Thank you to the few brothers and sisters who keep us in prayer always. Your prayers have done a lot and much have change since 3 and half years ago.

To Dear,

Thank you for not giving up when I did.

Thank you for the patience as I know how I am.

Thank you for the comfort when I am weary.

Thank you for the love as God love us first.

Thank you for who you are.

......................I will reserve the rest for the future :p

Brisbane, Here I come!!!

2007-06-25T13:07:00.001+12:00

I will be MIA for about 10 days. Off to Aussie tomorrow for 10 days! Wooohoooo!!!!

Sunshine Coast, here I come!! Running away from cold and wet Auckland.

I will be back. Back to my home, Auckland :)

I will miss my work (as if :p)

I will miss Tabyouth (not really coz everyone is away)

I will miss Melissa (coz the only time she is free and I am away -_-")

I will miss my wardrobe (definitely coz limited clothing to Aussie >.<")

I will miss my music (Nope - I have my mp3 mobile - gift from BF mum :p)

I will miss my drama (Nope, I will be much entertain in Aussie)

I will miss my room (yeah, after a couple of days)

I will miss my bro - Lucien (not really, I am just force by him to say so)

I will miss my deng ka bang (yeah i definitely will)

I will miss my "bao bei scot" (yep, no kidding)

I will miss my church (well, for a week, so not that bad)

I will miss my blog ( I will update if I find internet and PC)

I will miss my dear BF (yes, I will and feel like bringing him along)

Man, feel like coming back already -___-"

Be back for BF birthday in July.

Till then, Ciao!!!

Holiday

2007-06-25T13:07:00.000+12:00

I will be going on a 10 days holiday.
I will be on Emirates - the best airline, as they say. I did not book it as it support Team NZ but because it was the cheapest airfare when I book in March.
I am gonna sort of miss the American Cup when I am away, but no sweat and finger cross that Team NZ will pull through.
Get everything done and sorted so I am pretty much in the holiday mood now.
Wonder why am I at work as I am already in holiday mode? LOL
I have some arrangement to make. I have a bluuuurrrrr colleague who will forget things and is not as detailed. What to do, he is a man. We do form a good team though.
Ok, gonna look for some bits and pieces to do.

恋人关系中因该了解的9各事实

2007-06-18T11:37:00.000+12:00

很少会发布这样的文章。不过还是要发布这张，因为是基督徒应知道的。。。

同婚前不发生性关系的未婚夫妻相比，婚前就有性行为的未婚男女更有可能在婚前分手。如果年轻女子在这方面不让步，她倒更有希望与男友继续维持恋爱关系；
尽管时代改变了，然而许多男士仍不愿意娶一位已经与其他人有过性关系的新娘。好男人都会尊敬那些正直诚实的女性。如果有人向你威胁说，若你不和他婚前发生性关系，他就要把你甩了的话，你最好还是先把他甩了吧；
贞洁的人们有可能获得比失贞的人们更为快乐的婚姻。童贞只能给一个人，也只能给一次——你们肯定希望把它交给那位上帝为你们指定的人儿；
婚前有性行为的人更有可能在婚后分手或离婚。他们在婚前的性行为越多，就越有可能相互怀疑或猜疑；
失贞的人们会认为和他人有性行为没有什么关系，因此他们在婚后更有可能犯奸淫；
失贞的人们更容易上当而和不适和自己的人结婚。性可能使人变得盲目。因此我们需要检查一下自己内心的动机是否的确不是出于性的驱使；
有婚前性经验的人不太容易对婚后性生活的总体感到满意。你永远不会忘记"第一次"的经历，因而常常会去做比较；
婚前发生性行为可能会导致糟糕的婚姻。往往是一对未婚男女开始认真考虑他们之间的关系，认为将会与对方结婚，于是便发生关系，后来才发现他们之间并不合适。然而或出于歉疚，或出于责任，他们被迫结婚；
婚前发生性关系可能会破坏婚后的性生活，原因可能是一方或双方有负罪感、害怕以及自尊的丧失，也可能是由于他们在性生活上轻易不能得到满足，因而寻找错误的方法去增强性能力。

十种关于爱的错误认识

为度过一个美好的夜晚，女孩应该付出些什么——爱不是一种交易；
只要不再有进一步的举动，亲吻和爱抚没有什么关系——亲吻和爱抚可能发展成另外的行为；
有关异性约会的问题到发生时再考虑怎样处理也不迟——现在就做出决定，这样到了时候你才能在表达爱意之前保持清醒头脑；
基督徒可以与任何其他基督徒约会——基督徒约会基督徒是必须的条件，但并非唯一的先决条件；
对某人感到强烈的爱意，那就是真爱——感觉是暂时的。真爱包含了承诺，并且必须是双方的承诺；
一见钟情仍然存在——在大多数情况下一见钟情都不是真实的，它只是肉体的吸引。一个人是看不透别人的心灵和思想的；
答应对方的要求和他发生关系，他就会更加爱你和欣赏你——你是否希望你的配偶只是基于性的因素欣赏你？
如果你们彼此相爱并且关系富有意义，那么你们发生性关系就不算错——无论你们之间有多么相爱，即便你们已有婚约，婚前性行为仍然是一种罪。上帝把性作为最宝贵的礼物，只是送给了已婚的夫妻们；
快乐的婚姻只需要有好的性生活——性可以加强夫妻之间的联合，但它并非是最重要的因素；
只有"我自己"才会了解和分辨什么是真爱，什么是痴迷——中国有句谚语说："不识庐山真面目，只缘身在此山中"。你可能爱吃榴莲，但从未想到过榴莲的气味会影响到你周围的人。

几句忠告

不要只为现时活着——婚姻是终身大事。
不要只为好感活着--理智胜于感觉，应当寻求事实。
不要犯奸淫——上帝恨恶罪恶。贪恋地抚摸他人的身体或亲吻对方，这和发生性关系一样都是罪。
不要匆忙地确定关系——真爱可以等待。想想还要经过多少年你们才会结婚吧！而这婚姻将一直延续到你们生命的终点。
不要“随大流”——单身并不是坏事。对于单身的你，上帝有着他的目的。
不要指望你能改变另一方而结婚——只有上帝才能改变一个人的品性。若你硬要自己去改变对方，那只会以争斗和争论告终。
不要同居试婚——这样是对你婚姻生活特权的剥夺。
不要和非基督徒约会——基督徒和非基督徒的人生目标不同。在大多数情形下，往往是非基督徒使基督徒远离上帝，而不是基督徒把非基督徒带到上帝的面前。
如果你不想结婚，那就不要和对方约会。否则你不但自己不能专心仰望上帝，而且还会影响另一位基督徒的生活。另外，你们还可能关系破裂，那样只会给双方带来伤痛。

真正的爱是什么？

尚未有人得以完全领会那种与上帝之爱类似的完全的爱，可我们还是能够逐渐更深地了解这种爱。因此如果想要知道如何去爱，最重要的一点就是我们去了解上帝是怎样爱我们的，以及我们如何能够爱上帝。

如何明确敬虔圣洁的关系——关系发展的5个阶段

团契
- 在地方教会的环境中，信徒们之间互相负责任。在这一阶段我们的责任就是激发彼此的信心。
- 我们之间的关系是普通的主内弟兄姊妹的关系。
友谊
- 较一般弟兄间的关系更为亲密，彼此有更多的机会在一起工作和服事上帝，并且卓有成效。
- 这一阶段是单纯的友谊和工作伙伴关系，之间没有隐秘的动机。
- 在日常的环境中彼此进行了解，诸如对方对他人的举止/态度，在分派的工场里是否值得信赖，服事上帝是否一贯持久，对教会领袖们修正言行的反应如何。
- 观察对方如何应对生活中的难处（工作压力、生活危机管理等等）。
- 能直率地纠正彼此的错误。
- 能完全地利用包括个人和工作伙伴这两方面的属灵恩赐。
- 这个阶段里，上帝分别对各人的品性做炼净的工作，但不是作为婚姻的预备，而是为了各人灵命的长进以及更好的事奉。
求爱
- 如果不打算结婚，你就不要进入这个阶段！
- 通过祷告、向教会领袖咨询、对灵命成熟程度和属灵能力的观察，共同寻求上帝的旨意。
- 祷告——安排一段时期的祷告，以决定是否明确这一特殊的关系。
- 咨询——蒙上帝祝福的关系不仅仅是两人之间的事，而应成为对众人的祝福。
- 应向教会领袖负责，这样可使我们不会做出错误决定，引起不必要的尴尬（尤其当发生单恋时），也不致影响弟兄姊妹之间的关系。
- 向领袖负责意味着在做决定前就征询他们的意见，而不是决定做好后才通知他们。
- 高尚——把你们的关系完全交托给上帝，得到他的许可后再决定进一步地发展。
- 正直——维持正当的关系，最大限度地控制和约束自己。
- 在圣经（无条件）原则方面，双方必须相互认同，彼此欣赏，以一心一意事奉上帝为共同目标。
- 这个阶段可能需要几年时间，原因在于上帝可能需要对两人进行试验或进一步装备他们。因此双方必须耐心等待上帝的时候来到，尤其当一方仍在学习或尚未成年时更该如此。
- 这一阶段并非一定要以确定关系和约会告终。
- 如果两人关系不能理想发展，他们仍可保持弟兄姊妹的关系，不会给对方带来伤痛。
婚约
- 在得到上帝的确证以后，未婚夫妻就等于彼此有了结婚的承诺。到这个时侯约会才真正开始。
- 一旦有了婚约，尽管未婚夫妻的婚姻状况仍是未婚，人们却会把他们看作夫妻。
- 在这个阶段，性的诱惑越发强烈，因此抵制诱惑、保持圣洁变得更加重要。
- 双方在灵命上应该继续长进，但不应各自进步，而是应朝着建立家庭、共同事奉的方向发展。
- 继续向教会领袖负责，尤其是关于内心的思想意念，因为思想意念可能犯淫乱。
- 彼此之间不要太"粘乎"。重复一遍，蒙上帝祝福的关系不仅仅是对当事人双方的祝福。
婚姻
- 持续一生之久的契约关系。
- 正确而完整的次序应该是：庆祝——在上帝和教会会众面前举行公开婚礼；承诺——按照传统成为丈夫和妻子；完成——享受上帝的礼物——婚姻里的性关系。
- 次序必须正确而且完整
- 不要颠倒次序，把性放在首位。只有通过婚约的承诺才能获得性的满足。

如何选择终身伴侣：在恋爱前的友谊阶段就应考虑的因素

观察另一方的属灵生活；
- 重生的基督徒；
- 委身基督徒；
- 在基督的品性和思想方面已经成熟
- 作为补充和补偿因素的属灵恩赐
拥有从上帝而来的相同的异象；
从上帝、敬虔的婚姻顾问或教会领袖以及双方父母那里得到确证；
社会/精神结合适合性——教育、年龄和文化；
喜爱和厌恶之物；
习惯；
态度，价值观和习惯应相似；
在情感上两人必须能够合作，在日常生活中他们应能够象朋友那样相互支持、友好相处；
身体结合适合性 - 身材如高矮胖瘦，健康情况，先天才干和禀赋

有一种严峻的检验标准可以让你知道是否该继续求爱过程，那就是：如果你的(a)牧道，(b)研究/事工以及(c)见证（对任何人都并非绊脚石）有长进，那么你们可以继续发展；否则就应停止和回头……

蒙上帝祝福的关系自然就能证明二人比一人强。如果事实不是这样，那我们就需要检查一下我们期望得到BGR的内心动机。可能我们并不具备正确的立足点。

这种关系必须有益于上帝的国度。假如我们按着上帝的计划奉献自己，我们就必能从上帝那里得到最好的祝福。

同时这种关系在资金准备、时间安排、成熟程度等方面是切实可行的。有的人会敢于把你需要但又不爱听的事情告诉你，你可向他们征求意见。

结论

实践无私的爱。

从天国的角度来思考。

单身时尽最大努力服事上帝。

>.<"

2007-06-14T16:26:00.001+12:00

I am a week away to Aussie. But I am really deadly busy at work. Why this always happen whenever I am going somewhere? Why can't it be told a little earlier?

It's the Weekend again

2007-06-08T17:15:00.001+12:00

Time now is 5.17pm. It's the weekend and obviously my mind is already off work. It is gonna be a cold weekend and I think I sorta have a cold. hmmm...

Gonna share for tomorrow night fellowship. A big challenge as I have no idea the sharing I am about to share, is it a bit tough for the fellowship? Oh well, I will still do it. It is a wise move as I have been spending hours on it! Sense of Belongong.... What can you say on that?

Been blogging through a senior's blog lately. She was one of the top scores and lecturer says he have seen noone like her before. She owns a design fim in KL now but so what, she have no life. Only work, stress, play and sleep. I actually pity her. That is how life can be when you do not have Christ and aim in your life. She may have the money and career and a boyfriend but does she have a life? I am glad I have one. Thanks to my Lord my Savior Jesus Christ, all Glory and Honour and Power to Thy Name.

Ok, hopefully I am going home soon coz I am freezing in this cubicle and everyone around me is actually off and home, its the weekend anyway! And time to fellowship :)

Louis Vuitton Cup to Team New Zealand

2007-06-07T09:42:00.001+12:00

Salutes to Team Emirates New Zealand for wining the Loouis Vuitton Cup! They sweep Luna Rossa at 5-0 to a clean victory win!

They will be meeting Alinghi in 17 days for the American Cup. I will be away in Auusie then, too bad. One good thing is I am flying with Emirates!

All salutes to the Black Sail!

To the Students!

2007-06-05T17:04:00.000+12:00

Happy Study Break!

Enjoy the time while you can and study SMART to glorify Thy Name.

All the best in the exams plus keeping you guys in my prayers :)

Winter in Auckland

2007-06-05T16:56:00.001+12:00

Its so cold, temperature is 7C at night. Day is around 12C to 14C. See the 7C difference? It is still ok but it gets really sad when you go home after work at 5.30pm and its pitch black outside. Means its colder and usually during the 2o++ of june is the coldest day of the winter. They say so but it seems just the same to me from June till August!

Combined Choir is in 2 weeks and am looking foward to it. Hopefully we will sing well and glorify His name. Have this new Taiwanese teacher who is great! Shows us a lot of things as she is a professional choir conductor. Admire the humble attitude that she has.

Its a 4 days working week this week having yesterday as the observe Queen's Birthday on the 4 June. Spend the day at home doing some church stuff and went for a run. Have to take care of the kids due to some reasons. Hope Aunty recover soon or I will have my tummy suffer for 3 months at least!

Team New Zealand is another step closer to win the Louis Vuitton Cup! Go black sail!! Hope they will come out clean on Luna Rossa. They are able to make a 3-0 until today. The next race is 1am tonight NZ time. Keep the fingers cross!

Kids are just CUTE!

2007-06-05T16:48:00.000+12:00

TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America.
MARIA: Here it is.
TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America?
CLASS: Maria.

TEACHER: Why are you late, Frank?
FRANK: Because of the sign.
TEACHER: What sign?
FRANK: The one that says, "School Ahead, Go Slow."

TEACHER: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the foor?
JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables.

TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell "crocodile?"
GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L"
TEACHER: No, that's wrong
GLENN: Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it.

TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?
DONALD: H I J K L M N O.
TEACHER: What are you talking about?
DONALD: Yesterday you said it's H to O.

TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.
WINNIE: Me!

TEACHER: Goss, why do you always get so dirty?
GOSS: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.

TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with "I."
MILLIE: I is........
TEACHER: No, Millie..... Always say, "I am."
MILLIE: All right... "I am the ninth letter of the alphabet."

TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn't punish him?
LOUIS: Because George still had the ax in his hand.

TEACHER: Clyde, your composition on "My Dog" is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?
CLYDE: No, teacher, it's the same dog.

TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?
HAROLD: A teacher

McDonald Day

2007-05-30T16:05:00.000+12:00

About 10 years ago, My uncle and aunty married. Today is their Wedding Aninversary. Uncle is bringing Aunty out for their aninversary dinner. I am bring the kids out for dinner with my sister Melon! We are having McDonald tonight and praboably shop around town for a while. They just love the fries and soft cone!

Attached is a photo from my nephew and niece. They are adorable! LOL.

**Picture show last Friday when my aunty is out shopping and they choose to stay home with me tugging and praying in bed.

Pentecost Service

2007-05-28T13:10:00.000+12:00

It was Pentecost Day yesterday. Service was awesome! Worship was not long, only 2 songs one of it being the NZ National Anthem.

There was a sharing from a ex-Holden marketer (Holden is the biggest car company in Auckland, most government sectors use Holden). The testimony was how she quit her high pay job from Holden to become a student in order to wait for the next call from God. It was certainly encouraging. I could not imagine myself doing that! She really have faith in God. Looking at myself and my life, I will need to rely and have faith in God more.

Auckland Mayor Dick was with us. he is really tall! He gave a speech on how churches should be involved in politics to get the country driving to become a Christian country. NZ have gone astray these days.

Sermon was the best. It was how God have given us so much Hope! I know most of it but have never think in such a way Pastor Bruce delivers it. There was on particlaur guy name Thiam who was a 35 years pilot. During his frist 2 years, he faced a fatal accident as a co-pilot. When he was on a flight from HK to US, flying 500 miles from land, one of the engine failed. While his pilot says he was going to check on the passangers, he was left alone in the cockpit. I thought he was gonna pray for his life. But instead he pray for his wife and baby daugther. How amazing! God then give him a verse from Gospel John saying that he will be save. God has done this in my life before. Giving me a verse 3 years ago and it was a promise. To others, it myabe only a verse for the Isralites, but to me it was alive and real. Today, as promise, it was given to me. Noone supports me then, everyone discourage, but I was sure. I was touched, but I forget about it. The sermon was the time that I realized how much Hope God have put in me too. As Christian, we always knew that we have hope but when trial and tribulations come, we are the one who will fall too! Sermon really remind me of how God gave us hope and at the same time promise. It is not an empty hope but a real and firm one. Be grateful all the time.

The rest of the service is still great! Overall, it was the best Sunday service I have gone to for more than a year! I went it empty expecting just like any another combined service with heaps of activities but to my astonishment, I come out full and filled by the holy Spirit.

Thank God for yesterday! May the Holy Spirit keep filling me and be content of what God have given.

Why is Eve created from Adam's rib?

2007-05-25T11:56:00.001+12:00

A very romantic explanation that I read!

God created Adam. Adam was alone. God decided to give him a helper. He took a bone from his rib to create Eve, his other half. God did not take the head bone because Eve will headed Adam. God did not take the foot bone because Eve will be trampled by Adam. God took the rib bone. Rib bone is at the centre of a normal man which symbolized the equal between man and woman. The rib bone is also under Adam's arm, where Eve will be safe under Adam's protection. The rib bone is also close at heart, where Adam will love Eve with his heart.

How romantic our God is!

I have an answer for you

2007-05-25T11:13:00.000+12:00

In my previous post someone ask me "How far is too far in a relationship?" Refering to Romance and physical intimacy

I was not able to answer.

I read the books "Not without a Hint" and "Boy Meet Girl". I got inspired, love and through prayers, I got the answer!

Now, read it carefully.....

*Dating - Two individual get together without very much to know what they will do for the future, ie not considering marriage.

*Courtship - A process where two indidual get together where they weight the possibilities of marriage at the end of their relationship.

Courtship or dating, the word is not that important. The process and what you do in the relationship is more important.

So how far is too far?

*Consider the things that you do in your relationship. Imagine your relatiosnhip did not work out at the end, are you able to say, I have honour and respect my brother/sister in this relationship? In a relationship, when you are not confirm that you will spend the rest of your life with this particular person, do you think you have the right to enjoy intimacy - romance or physical enjoyment, over him/her? There will be crash and burn when your relationship is over. Ok, say that you did get married and do you think anything you do before marriage is over? No, think twice, you will have to carry the guilt and regrets into your marriage. If you think you will regret what you have done during your courtship, are you sure what you have done is hounouring God? Are you sure you can honour and respect your brother/sister this way?

The bible teaches us to love one another, love our sisters and brothers as we will love ourself.

At the end of your relationship make sure you are able to say these words. "Our conscience testifies that we have conducted ourselves in the world and especially to our relations with you, in the holiness and sincerity that are from God. We have done so not according to worldly wisdom but according to God's grace."

Be sure you have the ability to say that after your relationship and you will be sure that you have honour your sister and God.

.: 耶稣 :.

2007-05-23T09:54:00.000+12:00

他不动刀抢，却以爱征服世界

Wednesday - Foggy Day

2007-05-23T09:24:00.000+12:00

It is Wednesday today and foggy today. The first time when I am in NZ for 4 years that Symond Street, the part from Wakefield Street to Alfred Street, needs 15 minutes to get through.

It is foggy outside means its nice to sleep. Yeah, its cool and very nice to sleep.

During prayer last night, we have a fellowship prayer time which was really good. God is really with us in prayers and we pray earnestly for the Youth Fellowship. We pray for all leaders, particularly the Youth Leader, we pray for people who are extremely busy, Melissa and Vincent, hope they can sope with the stress and commitment, and grow too when they are stress and tired. We pray for people who have yet to know Christ. Come thinking back, I have been with this fellowship for almost 4 years! It was since the first time I came to NZ. Been through thick and thins, high and low plus finding someone :)

Reading "Not without a Hint" from Joshua Harris at the moment. Someone ask me a question of how far is too far for physical intimacy for a couple in Christian views. I do not know how to answer. Sigh, maybe I am searching for the answer myself. The Bible does not specify how far is too far. Hope I can give that person an answer soon. By the way, the book is highly recommended. I have "I kissed dating Goodbye" and "When boy meets Girl" too. Anyone who wana read, you are more than welcome to get them from me. But be sure you return to me not like Joey who takes 4 months to return thr book to me >.<" I thought I lost it them.

Hope today will be a better day and fruitful!

Moody ~

2007-05-22T12:37:00.001+12:00

It is Tuesday and I am moody today. The picture shows clearly my mood with the black and white color plus the mao's face. I have no idea why but just everyone who tries to talk to me, I tend to do not like them. Eventhough they are people that I love. It is just so odd.

Sometimes it is small things like this that makes me wonder. What on earth am I feeling like this? Am I crazy? Histeric? I have no idea. I tried to smile back at everyone and try not to look like I do not like them but I think they still see it in my eyes.

I am at work and I have deadlines to meet but I certainly do not feel like doing my work to meet the deadlines. Some people who have higher pay than you just talk - they are call consultants. They think they are the genius while you do all the work. At the end of the day, they are the one who took all the credits. And if your work is doomed, you are blamed coz you are the one who did the job. The worst matter is they have a higher pay than you do. Usually double or even triple of my wages. Talking about fair. And I do not think this is any fair at all.

Its not even 1pm and I am already thinking about going home. Just a very moody day that I want to go and sleep. Maybe its the weather or is it?

Ok, just another random post that I have no idea what about.

reading my blog

2007-05-22T10:02:00.000+12:00

People know me by what they see on me but rarely what they see in me. This blog is not suppose to be made public but if you do find my blog, good luck with what you gonna see here!

If you wana read this blog, keep it silence to yourself not a word to be mentioned to another soul as this is privacy act and your acts will be appreciate.

Drop a note for anyone who cares.